Strap-On Kits

A strap-on kit gives you the harness and a compatible dildo in one box, so nothing needs matching up. It covers beginner sets from Fetish Fantasy Series, Sportsheets and b-Vibe, pegging kits from Romp, Boundless and Strap U, vibrating sets with remote controls from VeDO and Lux Fetish, and double dildo strap-ons that please the wearer too.

First-timers should choose a slim dildo and an adjustable harness, and can swap the shaft later.

Buying guide

Your guide to Strap-On Kits

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What are strap-on kits?

A strap-on kit is a harness and dildo sold together. Some pair an adjustable strap harness with a silicone dildo you can later swap for another shaft; others build the dildo into the harness, add a motor, or fit a second shaft that sits inside the wearer. Buying a set removes the guesswork about ring sizes and base widths, which is why most people start here rather than in harnesses.

Types of strap-on kits

Beginner harness and dildo sets

The Fetish Fantasy Series First Timers set, the Sportsheets New Comer's kit with a slim dildo, the b-Vibe beginner set with a silicone peg, the Lux Fetish harness and silicone dildo, the Sex and Mischief kit and the CalExotics Red Rider all pair an adjustable harness with a modest, smooth shaft. The King Cock realistic harness with dildo and the Master Series silicone dildo with harness are the realistic-shaped options.

Pegging kits

Romp Piccolo, the Boundless silicone and curve pegging kits, the Strap U pegging dildo with harness and the Scandal crotchless pegging panty are built around slim, tapered shafts for anal receiving. The Lux Fetish Size Up training set includes more than one size so you can progress gradually.

Vibrating and remote-controlled sets

VeDO's Diki and Strapped, the Evolved Come Closer, Lux Fetish vibrating and rechargeable strap-ons, the Her Royal Harness rumble probe and the Fetish Fantasy Series vibrating set for him put a rechargeable motor in the shaft, most with a remote so either partner can change the pattern.

Double dildo strap-ons

Strap U Double Charmer, Stardust Double Dickin, the Skinsations vibrating double dildo, Lux Fetish Pleasure for Two and the Fetish Fantasy Series Double Delight have a second shaft that sits inside the wearer, so both partners are filled at once. Compare them with double penetration strap-ons.

Thigh straps, extensions and specialty sets

Onyxxx thigh, jock and support straps hold a silicone probe on the leg or hip, Performance Maxx extensions with harness are worn over a penis like a hollow strap-on, and the Creature Cocks Tenta harness with silicone dildo brings fantasy shapes to strap-on play.

How to choose a strap-on kit

Match the dildo to the receiver and the harness to the wearer.

  • Dildo size: for anal receiving pick a pegging kit with a slim shaft; for vaginal receiving a medium realistic shape suits most people.
  • Swappable or fixed: O-ring harnesses let you change the dildo later; built-in and double designs do not.
  • Harness style: adjustable straps fit the most bodies; high-waisted and panty styles give more coverage and support.
  • Power: vibrating sets add sensation for both partners but need charging and more careful cleaning.
  • Material: silicone dildos are non-porous and simple to clean; softer blends feel more lifelike but are porous.

How to use and care for a strap-on kit

Put the harness on and adjust it standing up, fit the dildo so the base sits flat against the harness, and tighten until it does not droop. Use plenty of water-based lubricant, go slowly, talk about angle and depth, and stop if anything hurts.

  • Wash the dildo before and after each use with warm water and a toy cleaner; remove any bullet first.
  • Hand wash fabric harnesses and air dry them; wipe leather or neoprene with a damp cloth.
  • Avoid silicone lubricant on silicone dildos and store them apart from other silicone toys.
  • Never use a shaft anally unless it has a flared base that sits in the harness.

Strap-on kits for beginners and couples

If you want to try before committing, a beginner set with a slim silicone dildo is the lowest-risk start, and you can add a larger shaft from the wider strap-ons range later. Couples who want to skip the harness altogether can look at strapless designs, which stay in place with a bulb held inside the wearer.

Still have questions?

FAQs

Strap-On Kits: frequently asked questions

What comes in a strap-on kit?

A harness and a dildo that fits it, so the ring size and base width are already matched. Some sets add a remote-controlled motor, a second shaft for the wearer or more than one dildo size. Check the product details for exactly what is in the box.

Which strap-on kit is good for beginners?

Look for a set with an adjustable strap harness and a slim, smooth silicone dildo, such as a first-timers or pegging kit. Choose one with a removable O-ring so you can swap the dildo later, and use plenty of water-based lubricant the first few times.

Can I swap the dildo in a strap-on kit?

If the harness holds the dildo in an O-ring, yes: any shaft with a flared base wider than the ring will work. Built-in, double dildo and most vibrating sets have the shaft fixed in place, so check the product details before buying.

What is a pegging kit?

A pegging kit is a strap-on set with a slim, tapered silicone dildo chosen for anal receiving. The shaft has a flared base so it stays in the harness, and some training sets include more than one size so you can build up gradually.

How do I clean a strap-on kit?

Remove the dildo and any bullet, then wash the dildo with warm water and a toy cleaner. Hand wash fabric harnesses and let them air dry; wipe leather or neoprene with a damp cloth. Store the dildo separately so it does not touch other silicone toys.

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