Lubricants

Lubricants make intimate play more comfortable, and the right type depends on the toys and activities you enjoy. Browse water-based, silicone and flavored formulas from trusted names.

Water-based lubricants work with most toys and rinse off easily. Silicone formulas last longer but should not be used on silicone toys. Check ingredients if you have sensitive skin.

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What is lubricant?

Lubricant is a slippery gel or liquid used to reduce friction and make intimate play more comfortable, whether you are enjoying solo or partnered play. Many people keep a bottle close at hand because a little extra glide can make toys, massage and everyday intimacy feel smoother. Choosing the right formula matters, so this guide explains the main types and what to look for.

Types of lubricant

Water-based lubricants

Water-based lubricants are the most versatile choice. They are generally compatible with condoms and all toy materials, and they rinse off easily with water. They can absorb or dry out over time, so you may need to reapply.

Silicone-based lubricants

Silicone formulas feel silky and tend to last longer, which many people like for extended play or use in water. They are usually fine with latex condoms, but avoid silicone lube on silicone toys, as it can degrade the surface over time.

Oil-based lubricants

Oil-based products are often used for massage. They can weaken latex condoms, so they are not a good match when you are using latex for protection, and they can be harder to wash from fabrics.

Flavored and warming options

Flavored and edible lubricants add a playful touch for oral play. Some products with sugars can bother sensitive skin, so check the ingredients first.

Lubricants made for anal play

Anal lubricants are often thicker, because the area does not produce its own natural lubrication. A richer texture can help with comfort and staying power.

How to choose a lubricant

  • Match it to your toys. Water-based is the safest default for any material. Check the toy maker's care guidance if you are unsure.
  • Think about condoms. Water-based and silicone-based options are generally suitable with latex. Avoid oil with latex.
  • Read the ingredients. If you have sensitive skin or have reacted to products before, look for simple formulas and consider a small patch test on your inner arm first.
  • Consider fragrance and flavor. Unscented is usually the gentlest option for sensitive skin.
  • Start with a small bottle. If you are new, a small size lets you find a texture you like before committing. Our beginner-friendly picks are a helpful place to start.

How to use and store lubricant

Start with a small amount and add more as needed. It is easy to add, and it is much easier than stopping to fix dryness. For toys, apply lube to the toy and to your body. Reapply if things start to feel sticky or tacky, because that usually means the product has dried or been absorbed.

After play, wash toys with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, then dry them fully. Keep bottles closed, out of direct heat and sunlight, and away from heavy moisture. Check the expiry date, and stop using a product that smells or looks different from when you bought it. If you notice irritation, discomfort or any symptoms that worry you, stop using the product and speak with a healthcare professional.

Lubricant for couples and solo play

Lube is useful for everyone. Partners can use it to make time together more comfortable, particularly when exploring new things from our couples collection. It also pairs well with solo play toys.

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Lubricants: frequently asked questions

What is the best type of lubricant to start with?

Water-based lubricant is a common starting point because it is generally compatible with condoms and all toy materials, and it washes off easily. It may dry out sooner than other types, so you can simply add a little more when needed.

Can I use silicone lubricant with silicone toys?

It is best to avoid it. Silicone lubricant can break down the surface of silicone toys over time, leaving them tacky or damaged. Use water-based lubricant with silicone toys, or check the toy maker's guidance for compatible products.

Is oil-based lubricant safe with condoms?

Oil-based products can weaken latex condoms and may make them more likely to break. If you are using latex condoms, choose a water-based or silicone-based lubricant instead, and always check the condom packaging for guidance.

How much lubricant should I use?

There is no fixed amount. Start with a small amount and add more as needed. Reapply whenever things begin to feel tacky or less smooth, as most lubricants dry out or absorb during longer play.

Does lubricant expire?

Yes. Most lubricants have an expiry date or a recommended period of use after opening. Keep the cap closed and store the bottle somewhere cool, and discard it if the smell, color or texture changes.

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