Arousal Oils

What are arousal oils?

Arousal oils are concentrated topical blends, usually made with botanical oils and essential oils, that are massaged into intimate skin to increase blood flow and sensation. Unlike a lubricant, you use only a drop or two, and the effect develops over a few minutes rather than being instant. Many people describe it as a warm buzzing or pulsing feeling that makes touch more intense. The collection also includes closely related products that work the same way in a different texture, such as stimulating gels, serums and liquid vibrator gels. If you prefer a gel or cream, our arousal gels, serums and balms collection is the natural companion.

Types of arousal oils

Classic arousal oils

The On range anchors this group, with Original, Lite and Ultra strengths plus Ice and Chocolate variations. A single drop massaged onto the clitoris builds into a buzzing sensation. Sensuva's Extreme version is the strongest step in the range.

Natural arousal oils and balms

Sensuva's On Natural oil and the Earthly Body Hemp Seed Love Button cooling balm take a plant-based approach. A balm is worked in like a salve and feels closer to a massage product; compare them with our massage oils.

Cooling, warming and tingling oils

Ice and Hot versions layer a temperature change on top of the arousal effect. Cooling formulas feel fresh and buzzing; warming ones feel like a slow flush. Tingling serums sit in between, and nipple gels from Nipplicious, Jelique and JO bring the same effect to the nipples.

Liquid vibrator gels

Orgie's Sexy Vibe and Dual Vibe lines and Doc Johnson's Buzz gels mimic a vibrator's buzz in liquid form, some in kissable cocktail flavors. They are not oils in the strict sense but are used in the same way and share shelf space here.

Formulas for him and couples kits

Stimulating gels for the penis, enhancement creams and his-and-hers sets let both partners join in. The men's arousal enhancers and for couples collections go deeper on these.

How to choose arousal oils

Start with strength and sensation, then consider texture and what else you plan to use alongside the oil.

• Strength: Lite is the gentlest step in; Original suits most people; Ultra, Extreme and High Voltage are for those who already know they like intensity.
• Sensation: Choose plain buzzing, cooling or warming. If you are unsure, plain is easiest to judge and build from.
• Texture: True oils linger and feel luxurious; gels and serums absorb quickly and wipe away more easily.
• Who is using it: Most oils are formulated for the clitoris, but many are also used on the penis. Couples kits include a formula for each partner.
• Compatibility: Oils can weaken latex condoms and are best kept off silicone toys. Apply the oil first, let it absorb, then use a water-based lubricant for toys or condoms.

How to use and care for arousal oils

Place a single drop on a fingertip and massage it into the clitoris or head of the penis. Wait a few minutes before deciding whether you want more; the effect builds gradually and a little goes a long way.

• Patch test on the inner arm the day before to rule out irritation.
• Keep oils external and away from the eyes and open skin; a mild buzz is expected, burning is not, so rinse off and stop if it stings.
• Wash hands before and after applying, especially before touching a partner's eyes or mouth.
• Close bottles tightly and store them upright in a cool, dark place; essential oils degrade with heat and light.
• Clean any toys used in the same session with a toy cleaner, since oil residue can cling to surfaces.

Arousal oils for beginners and couples

If you have never used an enhancer, choose a Lite oil or a plain stimulating serum and apply the smallest possible amount the first time. Couples often enjoy taking turns applying an oil as part of a massage, or pairing a flavored liquid vibrator gel with oral sex. Keep the first session relaxed, talk about how it feels and give the product a few minutes to work before adding anything else.