Leashes

What are leashes?

In bondage and fetish play, a leash is a strap or chain that clips to a collar, harness or other wearable so one partner can guide, hold or symbolically claim the other. Leashes feature in pet play, in dominance and submission dynamics, and simply as a dramatic accessory with lingerie. Nearly every piece in this collection is sold as a set with its collar; the full assortment of collars sits in collars and leashes.

Types of leashes

Classic collar and leash sets

The core of the range: a buckled or adjustable collar with a matching clip-on leash from Ouch!, Sex and Mischief, Temptasia and Scandal. Ouch!'s city-named collections (Paris, Milan, London and more) vary the hardware and finish while keeping a wearable, understated look.

Chain and halter leashes

Euphoria's chain halter and collar sets double as body jewelry, with a chain leash that catches the light. Metal leashes are cool against the skin and make a distinctive sound, which some people find part of the appeal.

Soft and decorative leashes

Fur-trimmed sets from Sex and Mischief, Temptasia's bow-detail collar, and WhipSmart's glow-in-the-dark set lean playful rather than severe. They are a gentle introduction for anyone curious about collaring without heavy leather.

Sets with cuffs, clips and extras

Lux Fetish, Ouch! and Fetish Fantasy Series offer collars with detachable wrist cuffs and a leash, while WhipSmart's Heartbreakers set adds nipple clips. These bundle a starter bondage kit into one box; see restraints for more cuff options.

Heavy-duty and specialist leashes

Strict Leather's long leash, Tom of Finland's gun metal leash and Fort Troff's tactical set are built for firmer handling, and Strict's ball stretcher with leash is a specialist piece for experienced wearers.

How to choose a leash

Think about who will wear it, who will hold it and how much tension it will see.

• Collar fit: Look for an adjustable collar you can fit two fingers under. It should never restrict breathing or press on the front of the throat when the leash is pulled.
• Material: Faux leather and nylon are easy to clean and forgiving; chain is striking but heavier; fur and lace are soft but need gentle care.
• Clip and hardware: A sturdy swivel clip prevents twisting and releases quickly. Check that the D-ring on the collar is stitched or riveted, not glued.
• Length: Short leashes keep a partner close for intimate scenes; longer leads suit pet play and crawling.
• Extras: If you want cuffs or clips, buying a set keeps the hardware matched.

How to use and care for leashes

Agree on what the leash means before you start, including a check-in word or gesture, and keep tugs gentle and sideways rather than upward on the throat.

• Never tie a leash to a fixed object and walk away; the wearer must be able to be released quickly.
• Do not leave a collar and leash on someone who is asleep or alone.
• Wipe faux leather and chain with a damp cloth; spot-clean fur and lace and let them air dry.
• Check stitching, clips and rings for wear before each session.
• Store leashes flat or hung so straps do not crease or crack.

Leashes for beginners, couples and pet play

For a first collar, a soft, adjustable set from Ouch! or Sex and Mischief paired with something from the lingerie range makes a low-pressure introduction to power play. Couples can grow into cuff-and-leash sets, and pet play enthusiasts tend to prefer longer leads with a swivel clip. Whatever you choose, the leash is a prop for communication, so keep talking and check in often. More ideas for shared play are in for couples.