Wrist & Ankle Restraints

What are wrist and ankle restraints?

Wrist and ankle restraints are cuffs and straps that gently limit a partner's movement during play. The simplest are a pair of furry handcuffs or soft cuffs joined by a short chain or clip; from there the collection runs through silicone cuffs, adjustable leather wrist and ankle cuffs, leg and thigh cuffs, metal handcuffs, hogties and hogtie connectors that join all four limbs, and a spreader bar with attached cuffs. Materials range from faux fur and silicone to plain, padded and fur-lined leather, vegan leather and metal.

Types of wrist and ankle restraints

Furry and beginner handcuffs

Fluffy handcuffs from Ouch!, Master Series, Fetish Fantasy Series and Sex and Mischief cover metal cuffs in soft faux fur. They are playful, forgiving and the right first restraint for most couples. Quick-release designs open without a key.

Silicone and soft cuffs

Sex and Mischief and Temptasia silicone cuffs and Sportsheets soft cuffs are smooth, flexible and easy to wipe clean, and some convertible styles work on wrists or ankles.

Leather wrist, ankle and leg cuffs

Rouge plain, padded and fur-lined leather cuffs, Nocturnal wrist cuffs and Ouch! leg cuffs buckle on with adjustable straps and a ring for connecting them. Padded leather is the gentlest; metal leg cuffs are for experienced players.

Hogties and spreader bars

Hogtie sets connect wrists and ankles together behind the body, while a spreader bar holds ankles or wrists a fixed distance apart. Both restrict movement far more than simple cuffs and call for a partner who checks in constantly.

Combination sets

A few kits bundle cuffs with an eye mask or a costume, pair thigh cuffs with wrist cuffs, or add a tuxedo collar and cuffs for dress-up play. Start with a plain pair and add extras later.

How to choose restraints

Comfort and a fast way out matter more than how the restraints look.

• Quick release: Choose cuffs that unclip or unbuckle in seconds. With metal handcuffs, keep the key within reach at all times or pick a quick-release pair.
• Padding and width: Wider, lined cuffs spread pressure and reduce marks. Bare metal needs more care.
• Adjustability: Buckles or sliders let you set a snug fit that still allows a finger to slide underneath.
• Restriction: Paired cuffs suit most bedrooms; hogties and spreader bars are for experienced couples. For straps that anchor to the bed or door, see bed and body restraints.
• Material: Faux leather and silicone wipe clean easily; real leather and faux fur need gentler care.

How to use restraints safely

Agree limits and a check-in word before anyone is cuffed. Restrained partners should never be left alone, even briefly.

• Fit cuffs so you can slide a finger underneath, and check hands and feet regularly for cold, tingling or colour change.
• Never pull against metal handcuffs, and change position often during longer scenes. Release immediately if anything hurts or goes numb.
• Wipe faux leather and vinyl cuffs with a damp cloth; wash silicone restraints with a mild toy cleaner; let leather air dry.
• Store restraints flat and dry, away from heat.

Restraints for beginners and couples

A pair of furry or silicone cuffs with a quick-release catch is the classic first purchase, and adjustable leather cuffs are the natural next step once both partners are comfortable. Pairing light restraint with a blindfold or a small vibrator from our vibrators collection changes the experience without adding risk. For more ideas on getting started together, browse couples and beginner-friendly picks, or see the full restraints range.