Restraint Kits

Restraint kits package a complete bondage position in one box: under-bed and bed post systems, hogtie sets, full body and neck-and-wrist restraints, travel kits and collar, cuff and leash sets. Brands here include Strict, Master Series, Ouch!, Lux Fetish, Fetish Fantasy Series and Frisky.

If you are new, an under-bed system or a soft bed kit is the easiest start; hogties and full body sets suit couples with experience.

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Your guide to Restraint Kits

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What are restraint kits?

A restraint kit is a bondage set that combines cuffs with the straps, anchors or connectors that hold them in place. The most common is the under-bed system, which slides between mattress and base and leaves adjustable cuffs at the corners. Others include bed post bindings that tie to the frame, hogties that link wrists and ankles behind the body, full body sets, and matched sets of cuffs, collar and leash. For individual cuffs and ties, see our main restraints collection.

Types of restraint kits

Under-bed and bed restraint systems

Strict, Sex and Mischief, Frisky and Ouch! make straps that run beneath the mattress, with soft cuffs at each corner, while the Ouch! Bed Post Bindings kits tie to the bed frame instead. They need no fixings and tuck away when not in use. This is the classic beginner kit, and more options are in restraint systems.

Hogtie kits

Hogties connect wrist and ankle cuffs behind the body. Fetish Fantasy Series offers the Extreme Hog Tie and Heavy-Duty Hogtie kits. These restrict movement far more than a bed system, so they suit experienced partners who communicate well.

Full body, neck and travel sets

The Master Series Subdued full body restraint set and WhipSmart's Diamond neck and wrist set keep the arms positioned against the body, the Strict Leather set brings sturdier hardware, and the Nasstoys Traveler kits pack a complete system into a case for taking away. They are wearable and work well with other bondage kits.

Cuff, collar and leash sets

Master Series offers matched cuffs, collar and leash in leather, velvet and rainbow styles, Lux Fetish and Ouch! have collar sets with cuffs and leash, and Fetish Fantasy Series has an adjustable nylon kit. The CalExotics Pleasure Kits bondage set and the Sportsheets cuffs and tethers kit are gentle for a first attempt; the beginner bondage kits collection has more in this spirit.

How to choose restraint kits

Choose the position you want to explore, then make sure the kit is comfortable and quick to undo.

  • Position: Lying spread on the bed calls for an under-bed or bed post system; hogties and full body sets are for more immobilizing scenes; collar and cuff sets work anywhere.
  • Release: Look for buckles, hook-and-loop or quick-release clips rather than knots or locks, so the restrained partner can be freed in seconds.
  • Cuff comfort: Padded, lined or velvet cuffs are kinder for longer scenes; vinyl and plain nylon feel stricter.
  • Adjustability: Adjustable straps fit more bodies and bed sizes; check the maximum length for a large mattress.

How to use and care for restraint kits

Before anyone is tied, agree on a safe word and a non-verbal signal, and check that every cuff can be released quickly without searching for a key. Fit cuffs snugly but loose enough to slide a finger beneath.

  • Never leave a restrained partner alone, and check in often about numbness, tingling or cold hands and feet.
  • Keep safety scissors nearby for any strap that is hard to undo in a hurry.
  • Avoid pressure on the front of the neck and never attach a collar or leash to anything that could tighten.
  • Wipe cuffs and straps with a damp cloth after use, let them dry fully and store them loosely coiled away from heat.
  • Stop immediately if anything hurts, and release at the first sign of panic or loss of circulation.

Restraint kits for beginners and couples

Couples curious about bondage usually do best with an under-bed restraint system or a soft bed kit: both are forgiving, quick to release and easy to pair with a blindfold. Later, hogties or full body sets add intensity for partners who already communicate well about limits. Pair any kit with a lingerie piece or a blindfold to build the mood.

Still have questions?

FAQs

Restraint Kits: frequently asked questions

Which restraint kit is good for beginners?

An under-bed restraint system is the usual first choice. It fits most beds without fixings, the cuffs are soft and adjustable, and everything releases quickly. A soft bedroom restraint kit from Frisky or Sex and Mischief is a gentle alternative if you want something easy to escape.

How do under-bed restraints work?

Straps run beneath the mattress and connect to each other, with a cuff at each corner emerging at the sides of the bed. The mattress weight holds them in place, so there is nothing to drill or tie. Adjust the strap length so cuffs sit comfortably at wrists and ankles.

Are restraint kits safe?

They can be used safely with sensible precautions. Agree on a safe word and a non-verbal signal, use cuffs that release quickly, never leave a restrained person alone, keep anything away from the front of the neck, and check regularly for numbness or cold hands and feet.

How do I clean bondage restraints?

Wipe cuffs, straps and buckles with a damp cloth and mild soap, then let everything air dry completely before storing. Silicone cuffs can be rinsed under warm water. Avoid soaking leather or vinyl, and keep metal hardware dry so it does not corrode.

Will an under-bed restraint system fit my bed?

Most systems have adjustable straps designed to fit standard mattress sizes from twin through king. Check the maximum strap length on the product page if you have an unusually large or thick mattress, and make sure the cuffs reach comfortably before tightening anything.

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