Relax & Unwind

Wand massagers, massage oils and creams, edible massage gels and massage candles for slowing down and unwinding, alone or with a partner.

Choose between plug-in and rechargeable wands, scented or fragrance-free oils, and candles that melt into warm massage oil. Discreet packaging, free shipping over $59.

Buying guide

Your guide to Relax & Unwind

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  • 5FAQs

What is in the Relax and Unwind collection?

This is the slower-paced corner of the store, built around massage. Wand massagers sit alongside a large choice of massage oils, massage creams, edible and lickable massage gels and massage candles from brands such as Bodywand, Kama Sutra, Smack, Intimate Earth, Wicked and HandiPop. Everything here suits a quiet evening alone as well as a long, unhurried session with a partner.

Types of products for relaxing

Wand massagers

Powerful massagers with a broad rounded head on a long handle. Plug-in classics such as the Magic Wand Original, Bodywand Original and Doxy sit next to rechargeable wands from Palmpower and Bodywand, petite travel wands like the Mini Wanachi, and a dual-ended glass wand. Wands work well on tense shoulders and over clothing as well as for intimate use. More styles live under vibrators.

Massage oils and creams

Scented and fragrance-free oils in blends like lavender and vanilla, lemongrass and ginger or sweet almond, plus hemp seed oils, botanical body oil, pheromone-infused oils and rich massage creams. A little goes a long way on warm hands.

Edible and lickable massage gels

Flavored, lickable oils and edible gels in fruit and dessert flavors, some with a gentle warming feel, plus a slippery nuru massage gel for full-body glide. These suit playful massage that drifts into foreplay.

Massage candles

Small candles that melt into warm massage oil, some with a pour spout, in scents like vanilla and amber or leather. Light one to set the mood, then use the pool of oil for the massage itself.

How to choose relaxing products

Think about whether you want a tool, a texture or an atmosphere, then match the product to the way you like to unwind.

  • Power versus portability: Full-size wands are the strongest but bulky; mini wands are easier to pack and quieter.
  • Plug-in or rechargeable: Plug-in wands never run out mid-session; rechargeable models are cord-free and travel better.
  • Scent: Pick a fragrance-free oil if you are sensitive to perfume, and a scented blend if you want it to set the mood.
  • Taste: Edible and lickable oils and gels are the choice if massage is likely to lead to kissing.
  • Candles: A pour spout makes warm oil far less messy to use.

How to use and care for massage products

Begin any wand on its lowest setting and let the body warm up before increasing intensity. Massage oils are for skin, so switch to a water-based lubricant for intimate use, especially with silicone toys or latex condoms.

  • Blow out a massage candle and wait a moment, then test the oil on your wrist before pouring.
  • Patch test any new oil, cream or gel on a small area of skin first.
  • Wipe wands with a mild toy cleaner before and after use, and keep plug-in models and charging ports dry.
  • Stop if anything stings or goes numb, and never hold a wand on one spot for a long time.

Relaxing solo or as a couple

On your own, a mini wand and a scented oil make an easy wind-down ritual after a long day. Couples often start with a massage candle or a lickable oil on the back and shoulders, then bring in a wand once both partners are relaxed. You will find more ideas for shared evenings in our couples collection.

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FAQs

Relax & Unwind: frequently asked questions

What is the difference between a wand and a regular vibrator?

A wand has a large rounded head on a long handle and a stronger motor, so it spreads deep, rumbling vibration over a wide area. Regular vibrators are smaller and more targeted. Wands can be used for body massage over clothing as well as for intimate play.

Can massage oil be used as lubricant?

Not for intimate use. Massage oils and candle oils are meant for the skin, and oil can weaken latex condoms and damage some toy materials. Use them for body massage, then switch to a water-based lubricant for anything internal or with silicone toys.

How do I use a massage candle safely?

Light it and let a pool of oil form, then blow out the flame and wait a moment before pouring. Test a drop on your wrist first, pour slowly onto your hands or your partner's skin, and keep the candle away from hair and fabric.

What is the difference between edible and regular massage oil?

Edible and lickable oils and gels are flavored so they can be kissed off the skin, which makes them a natural bridge into foreplay. Regular massage oils focus on scent and glide. Check each label and patch test before using either on sensitive skin.

Is a plug-in wand better than a rechargeable one?

Plug-in wands tend to be very powerful and never run out of charge, but you are tied to an outlet. Rechargeable wands are cord-free and travel well, and mini versions are quieter. Choose based on where you will use it most.

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